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Exciting Facetime Activities for Love Birds!

As a couple, we all know how important it is to maintain a strong and healthy relationship. With the rise of long-distance relationships, Facetime activities have become an essential tool for couples to stay connected and close to each other. However, just like any other form of communication, there are certain things that we can do to make Facetime more effective and meaningful.

In this article, I will be sharing with you some tips and tricks on how to effectively Facetime as a couple. These tips are not only meant to enhance your communication skills, but also to strengthen your relationship and bring you closer together. So whether you are in a long-distance relationship or just looking for ways to spice up your Facetime sessions, keep reading for some valuable insights.

Here are some Facetime activities to strengthen your relationship:

  • Set a regular schedule for Facetime sessions
  • Plan virtual dates and activities together
  • Share your daily routines and experiences with each other
  • Play games or do quizzes together
  • Send surprise care packages or love letters
  • Watch movies or TV shows together
  • Express gratitude and appreciation for each other

Setting the Mood

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When it comes to facetime, setting the mood is essential to creating a comfortable and enjoyable atmosphere. Here are a few things that I have found to be helpful in creating the right environment for a successful facetime session:

Creating a Comfortable Environment

The first thing that I do when preparing for a facetime session with my partner is to create a comfortable environment. This means finding a quiet and private space where we can talk without distractions. I also like to make sure that the lighting is just right, not too bright or too dim. Additionally, I try to make the space visually appealing by adding a few decorations or personal touches.

Choosing the Right Time

Another important factor in setting the mood for successful facetime activities is choosing the right time. I like to pick a time when both my partner and I are free from other distractions and can fully focus on our conversation. It’s also important to consider time zones and other scheduling conflicts that may arise.

Here are a few additional things that my partner and I like to do during our facetime sessions to strengthen our relationship:

  • Play games together, such as 20 questions or truth or dare
  • Cook a meal together and enjoy it over facetime
  • Watch a movie or TV show together and discuss it afterwards
  • Read a book or article together and have a discussion about it
  • Engage in a shared hobby or activity, such as painting or playing music
  • Take a virtual tour of a museum or other cultural attraction
  • Plan future trips or activities together

Facetime Activities to Strengthen Your Relationship

Sharing Your Day

One of the best ways to strengthen your relationship during a Facetime call is to share your day with your partner. Talk about what you did, how you felt, and any challenges you faced. This will help your partner understand your life better and make them feel more involved in your day-to-day activities.

Don’t be shy with your partner. I know sometimes you can feel like you are annoying your loved one with all this trivial information, but trust me, you aren’t. Especially when you are far apart, hearing about your loved ones’ day is pleasant and reassuring.

Sharing information about your day can strengthen your romantic relationship in many ways. It can help to create a sense of emotional intimacy between partners. By opening up and sharing your thoughts and feelings about your day, you are allowing your partner to see a deeper, more vulnerable side of you, which can foster a deeper sense of closeness and trust in the relationship.

Playing Games Together

Playing games together can strengthen your romantic relationship in several ways. This can provide an opportunity to have fun and enjoy each other’s company, which can help to create positive memories and reinforce the emotional bond between partners. When couples engage in playful activities together, it can help to reduce stress and create a sense of shared joy, which can improve overall relationship satisfaction.

These delightful time killers can also help to foster a sense of teamwork and cooperation between partners. We once played a game together called It Takes Two which not only has amazing animation and art style, but also has a very good message for those going through a rough patch in their relationship.

Not only does engaging in fun activities foster a sense of teamwork, but it can also provide an opportunity for partners to challenge each other in a healthy and constructive way. When couples engage in friendly competition, it can create a sense of excitement and energy in the relationship, as well as a healthy sense of playfulness and humor. This can help to improve communication and conflict resolution skills, as partners learn to navigate disagreements and differences in a positive and respectful way.

Doing fun activities like playing card games, video games, board games, or even games like bowling and billiards can be a fun and effective way to strengthen your romantic relationship. My partner and I like to go bowling every Sunday with each other to keep things fun and give us something to look forward to throughout the week. this helps us create positive memories, foster teamwork and cooperation, and provide a healthy outlet for competition and challenge.

Cooking Together

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Cooking together is a great way to bond with your partner and share a common interest. Choose a recipe that you both like and prepare it together over Facetime. This facetime activity will give you a sense of accomplishment and create a shared memory.

Cooking together, believe it or not, can strengthen a romantic relationship. How? I’m glad you asked. This activity provides an opportunity for partners to spend quality time together in a relaxed and enjoyable environment. When couples cook together, they can chat, laugh, and have fun while preparing a meal, which can create a sense of shared joy and intimacy.

According to Zoom, cooking with your partner helps you create more memories and allows you to get to know your partner better. You don’t even have to cook a meal together, you can cook meals separately then facetime when you are done and enjoy a digital date.

This is an effective way to strengthen a romantic relationship. By providing an opportunity for quality time, collaboration, and improved health and well-being, cooking can help to build a stronger, more fulfilling relationship between partners.

Watching a Movie or TV Show Together

Watching a movie or TV show together is a great way to spend time with your partner. Choose something that you both like and watch it together over Facetime. You can even use a streaming service that allows you to sync your viewing so that you can watch simultaneously. Watching a movie together, while not the most intimate, can still strengthen a romantic relationship. It provides an opportunity for partners to spend quality time together in a relaxed and enjoyable environment.

Watching a film or show together can also provide an opportunity for partners to learn more about each other’s interests and preferences. W has shown me some great movies and TV shows that I have thoroughly enjoyed and that has told me that not only does he have good taste, but we share similar preferences when it comes to movies and shows.

Stress can be relieved in the relationship for just a moment by watching a movie with your loved one. By taking time out to unwind and enjoy a movie together, partners can reduce stress and tension, and create a more positive and relaxed atmosphere in the relationship. This can improve overall relationship satisfaction and strengthen the emotional connection between partners.

Exercising Together

Exercising together is a way to stay healthy while bonding with your partner. You can do simple exercises like yoga or stretching together over facetime. This will help you both stay motivated and focused on any goals you may have for yourself or your partner.

This is a good facetime activity because it strengthens a romantic relationship in many ways. It provides an opportunity for partners to spend quality time together in a healthy and active environment. When couples exercise together, they can motivate and support each other, which can create a sense of teamwork and mutual encouragement. This can help to improve overall relationship satisfaction and create a deeper emotional connection between partners.

Sometimes, W and I would exercise over facetime together. He would go to the gym and I would stay at home doing a small workout routine in my room. This was a very fun experience for us because we got to see each others preferences when it comes to working out and also each others improvements in the work out it’s self after a while.

Exercising together can also provide an opportunity for partners to learn new things about each other. By trying different types of exercise, such as yoga or martial arts, partners can learn more about each other’s interests and preferences, and use this knowledge to plan future activities and experiences together.

Physical activity can also help to improve physical health and well-being in the relationship. By exercising regularly, partners can improve their overall health and feel more energized and happy. This can create a positive cycle of well-being and happiness, which can strengthen the emotional connection between partners and improve overall relationship satisfaction.

Taking a Shower Together

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Taking a shower together is a unique way to bond with your partner. You can both get in the shower separately and then turn on facetime while you both shower. This will create a sense of intimacy and closeness. It may sound or feel a little weird at first, but worry not. After a while you will grow to enjoy this intimate moment with your partner and actually begin to look forward to it.

When my partner and I were in a long distance relationship, we would try to do this every night. Showers in person were some of our favorite times together, so we figured hey, why not do it over the phone too. While taking showers together in person has its benefits, taking showers together over facetime can also help strengthen a romantic relationship in its own way. Here are some potential benefits:

  1. Connection: Even if partners are physically apart, taking showers together over facetime can create a sense of connection and intimacy. It can help maintain a sense of routine and normalcy in the relationship, especially if partners are in a long-distance relationship or have busy schedules that make it difficult to see each other in person.
  2. Trust: Taking showers together over facetime requires a level of trust, as partners need to feel comfortable being vulnerable and exposed in front of each other, even if they are not physically present with each other. This trust can translate to other aspects of the relationship and help build a strong foundation of trust and openness.
  3. Creativity: This activitiy can also be a creative and fun way to spice up a long-distance relationship or add some excitement to a routine. Partners can experiment with different camera angles and lighting to create a more sensual or playful atmosphere.

While taking showers together over facetime may not provide the same physical sensations as an in-person shower.

Phone Sex

Phone sex can help keep the spark alive in your long-distance relationship. You can both use your imagination to create a sensual experience over facetime. This will help you both feel closer and more connected to each other.

Phone sex can be a fun and intimate way to strengthen a romantic relationship. Suprisingly, there are quite a few benefits that comes with this activity:

  1. Keeps the intimacy alive: Phone sex can help couples maintain a level of intimacy that may be difficult to achieve when physically apart.
  2. Increases sexual tension: The anticipation of phone sex can build up sexual tension and make the actual experience more intense and satisfying.
  3. Helps explore fantasies: Phone sex can be a safe and comfortable way to explore sexual fantasies and desires with a partner.
  4. Provides a temporary solution: When physical intimacy is not possible, phone sex can provide a temporary solution to satisfy sexual needs and desires.

It is important to note that engaging in phone sex should always be consensual and respectful. Partners should establish boundaries and communicate their comfort levels with each other before engaging in any kind of sexual activity, even over the phone. Additionally, it is important to consider privacy and security concerns when engaging in phone sex, such as using a secure line and being aware of the potential risks of sharing explicit content.

Communicate Effectively During Facetime

Effective communication is the key to a successful relationship, and it’s even more important when you’re communicating over facetime. Here are some tips to help you improve your communication skills:

Active Listening

When your partner is speaking, it’s very important to give them your undivided attention. Don’t interrupt or try to finish their sentences for them. Instead, listen carefully to what they’re saying and ask questions to show that you’re interested in what they have to say. Repeat back what you heard to ensure that you understood them correctly.

This type of communication is needed in every relationship. Not listening to your partner is one of the main ways a relationship can fail. If you don’t giver your lover your undivided attention they will begin to feel like you don’t care about them, you don’t want to hear what they have to say, and start to feel like they are burdening you with their conversations.

To keep a relationship strong and healthy, you are going to need to be good at communicating your feelings, but also being attentive to theirs. It may sound like a lot of work now, but for someone you love, you will do anything to make them happy.

Asking Open-Ended Questions

Have you ever heard of dry texting? Yes, that’s exactly what we are talking about. Asking open-ended questions is a great way to keep the conversation flowing. Instead of asking yes or no questions, ask questions that require a more detailed response. For example, instead of asking “Did you have a good day?”, ask “What was the best part of your day?”.

When you are texting someone, it’s easy to get lazy, however, please try your best to refrain from abbreviating questions such as “wyd”. This is not a good way to talk to you partner. Instead you can spell out the whole thing so it seems like you actually care. Say “what are you doing today?” “are you doing anything fun today?”. See, that sounds ten times better.

Expressing Your Feelings

It’s important to express your feelings to your partner, even if they’re difficult to talk about. Use “I” statements to express how you feel, instead of blaming or accusing your partner. For example, instead of saying “You never listen to me”, say “I feel like you’re not hearing me when I talk”. This goes hand in hand with what I said up above in the active listening portion; you need to be a good communicator.

Especially if you are in a argument, you need to know how to deescalate your partner, not rile them up. In a argument, it’s natural to want to be right and have the upper hand, but that should not be your goal. Your goal is to tackle the problem together. This happens with effective communication, clear minds, and at least one of you to be rational enough to talk the other person out of blaming the other.

We have a more in-depth guide to de-escalating your partner in an argument. Check it out here.

Other Tips for Effective Communication

Be honest and transparent with your partner, avoid using sarcasm or passive-aggressive comments, take responsibility for your own feelings and actions, don’t make assumptions about your partner’s thoughts or feelings, use body language to convey your emotions, and don’t be afraid to ask for clarification if you don’t understand something. By following these tips, you can improve your communication skills and strengthen your relationship with your partner. Remember, communication is a two-way street, so make sure you’re both actively participating in the conversation.


In conclusion, facetime can be a great way for couples to stay connected and strengthen their relationship. By utilizing the tips and tricks mentioned in this article, you can make the most out of your facetime calls and create a deeper bond with your partner. Remember to always prioritize communication, be present in the moment, and have fun!

Here’s a quick recap of the things that you can do during facetime to strengthen your relationship:

  • Plan virtual date nights
  • Take turns asking each other questions
  • Play games together
  • Watch movies or TV shows together
  • Cook or bake together
  • Read to each other
  • Share your daily lives with each other

By incorporating these activities and communication tips into your facetime calls, you can create a stronger connection

The vibration in her hand caused her heart to skip a beat and tingle with anticipation. She knew who it was before seeing the caller ID. Bringing her phone to her face, she sees it is indeed him calling. Almost immediately, she jumps out of her chair and fly’s to her room feeling giddy inside. She answered the phone and came face to face with his familiar complexion. A smile shone from her eyes as she eagerly greeted him, and she couldn’t help but feel a surge of excitement at the sight of him. As they began to talk, she laughed and leaned into the phone, soaking up every word and gesture from her boyfriend. The way his face softened as he listened to her talk about her day, and the way his eyes lit up when talking about his. As the call drew to a close, the girl felt a pang of sadness at the thought of having to say goodbye, but also a sense of joy at having spent this precious time with her loved one. She hung up the phone with a contented sigh, feeling grateful for the technology that allowed her to feel so connected to her boyfriend even from miles away.

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